Delayed Ejaculation
The majority of men
with sexual problem usually tend to place emphasis on erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. But rarely you find a man who
is worried because it takes him over 30 minutes to climax and sometimes not at
all. You see to most men delayed
ejaculation is seen as the mark of a stud .However the man who cares about his partner satisfaction finds it a real problem.
Such situations can be physically painful and also mentally
painful for the woman. Physically her vagina lubrication starts drying and the
friction of penis against vagina can be painful
as the area gets sore.
Mentally she begins to stress herself that she is not exciting
him enough because she may not be sexy enough, attractive enough or she is not
doing it right and more so that he really does not love her or that he wants to
be with someone else.
What are some of the possible Causes of the problem
1.Medications -
a. SSRIs -antidepressants like Prozac, Lexapro Zoloft Paxil. and Celexa
b. Benzodiazepines - drugs lead for anxiety like Xanax. And Klonopin
C.
Blood pressure medication
D. Medication for convulsion
e.
Medication for cholesterol
2. Anxiety and
Depression
3Autoimmune – multiple
sclerosis , hyperthyroidism can cause
SD
4.Short term health conditions - UTI and other
infections.
5. Emotional –Fear, anxiety, nervousness,
emotional hang up as being seed as a stud if , fear of getting a Pregnant
6. Practice Masturbation for long periods and recent masturbation,
watching porno and masturbate,
7. Low hormone
–like thyroid or testosterone
9. Non encouragement from your partner -She
does not make you feel as if you or
doing a great job
10. Less than 20
minutes fore play
11. Some thing bothering your mind
12. High level of
stress
13.Prostrate problem
14 Psychological
problems
Depression, anxiety and mental health issues
- Relationship problems, due to lack of
communication or doubting partner
- Anxiety
about performance especially if it
occurs more than once
- Poor body
image and organ size
- Cultural and religious taboos.
- Difference between what was expected
fantasy about the partner and the reality of the sexual fantasy
15. damaged nerve: nerves on penis , head or soreness.
16. Older
age :as men age, it's normal for ejaculation to take longer
17. Surgery : as prostate surgery
18.Alcohol
abuse: especially
if you're a long-term heavy drinker
Complications
of delayed ejaculation can include:
·
Diminished
sexual pleasure for a man or his partner
· Stress
or anxiety about sexual performance
· Marital
or relationship problems due to an unsatisfactory sex life
·
Inability
to get your partner pregnant (male infertility)
Contributing author
Juliet Christie Murray
Juliet Christie Murray